18 May, 2011

Laughing at Lunch

So I just had a wonderful moment with my oldest daughter. Our conversation was quite interesting and had me cracking up.

I told Evie should could do something when she asked in the car and she said, "you're the best mom". Then, at lunch she asked to do something and I told her "no". She looked at me puzzled then and said, "you were the best mom in the car. Why can't you be the best mom in the house?"


Oh my goodness! I just realized all four of my kids are asleep at the same time! How did that happen and how can I make sure it happens again?

08 May, 2011

Happy Mother's Day

mommy: my favorite title

What a wonderful day. I love the idea of celebrating how important our mom's and the role of motherhood in our lives in a day. I think that unless we have a set aside time, it's easy to let our gratitude for such things go unsaid, not on purpose, but still.

my mama

So today, I am grateful for all those wonderful women in my life who have filled the role of mother in some way or another. I have friends that have advised me and loved me, teachers who have given me knowledge and guidance, motherly-type women who have blessed me with tenderness and concern (bishop's wives and now, officer's wives have fallen nicely in this category), and of course, both my mama at home and my mother-in-law/best friend in Spokane,WA. I have been so blessed by super amazing women both in and out of the church that I just want to say thank-you to them and all of you who give women a good name by being motherly to those around you even if they don't want it or say thank-you themselves.

my other mom

This is a fun post for me too in the respect that as a woman I love the idea of thanking women who fulfill the wonderful and very traditional role of motherhood. In our society/world today many try to undervalue the role that I love so much and the fact that as a nation we celebrate the role women were born to fill makes me so glad I live here. Women have been given special skills, talents, and gifts that lend themselves particularly to being moms and I know that our Heavenly Father loves his daughters so much that He trusted us with those things so we could be the kind of people to help lead and guide others in their path toward home to Him.

beautiful little big girl

This post is also fun for me in the respect that I AM a mommy! I love being a mom. It is so hard! It's also the most wonderful, joyful, fun thing I've ever done. It's one of those things that at the end of my life, no matter how my kids turn out, that I'll be able to say, "that was worth my time, effort, and sacrifice." I have become more the person I want to be because I am a mom. I have also had the special opportunity to be here for four amazing children that bless my life with sweet kisses, big bear hugs, and lots of giggles that make my sides hurt and mouth tired from all the laughter. What a wonderful gift it is to be a mom. I am so grateful that I didn't listen to the world and decide to wait longer or not to have them at all. I have much to offer the world just as me, but I actually can change the world in a very real sense by what I do as a mom. It's a bit scary and intimidating, but also extremely exciting and makes me feel so special.

my sweet little boy

My kids today were so cute! Joseph colored me a pretty flower in nursery to wear like a necklace, Evie brought me a felt pin on flower that she specially picked out because it was blue (my favorite color), and Chris made lunch for our family and then took charge of dinner.

partner in crime

It was a wonderful day for me with some beautiful talks in church and some great thoughts from other women and family members today.


giggle queen and daddy

One of the best gifts a mom of little ones can get was given to me today! Elizabeth, my 1 1/2 yr old, finally said, "mama" today!!! I loved it so much I asked her to say it again and again. She was so cute that by the end of the day she would just make raspberries at me instead. Silly turkey!

littlest little one

Well, I hope all of you reading this have taken the opportunity to think about the women in your life and maybe said thank you for what they've done in helping you to be who you are. We don't always get along with our own moms, but we have all been given the blessing of special women in our lives who have filled that space in our hearts.
best job of all time

Love you mom!

21 April, 2011

Four Little Fosburgs

Our little Fosburgs have been very busy this spring!

Evie has been learning so much so quickly and will "graduate" from our co-op home preschooling group at the end of May. It has been such a wonderful experience for us and given me the courage and experience I desperately needed to continue the homeschooling on my own. It was a tricky choice and one I didn't come to lightly. But after lots of consideration and observation of my sweet smarty-pants, I have decided the homeschooling is a go. Wish us luck!

She also continues to be a great help with her little brother and sisters. I can't believe how much I rely on her now. She's only four and yet she does so much. She has helped the younger ones be excited about our daily chores (laundry, dishes - she gets to put away the silverware by herself, vacuuming, and sweeping). Some would say, "you probably go back over and do them again yourself later", but guess what? Her sweeping is so proficient that I never look at it again! Amazing for a four year old!


Evie also reminds me of things like brushing teeth and vitamins and always helps me find things I've lost - most often pacifiers, my phone, my shoes, Lizzy's shoes, remote controls, my socks, JC's socks, Ally's socks, Lizzy's coat, my coat. OK, so I lose a lot of stuff. The list actually includes everything at some point. Good thing she's around. Of course, she is sometimes the culprit who stole the item from it's last known location so it's not all me folks!


Then of course, there is my handsome, little boy, Joseph. Oh, how I can't wait for him to have a brother. But, in the meantime, he is so patient and loving with his THREE sisters. He is Eve's playmate, Lizzy's helper, and Ally's find-the-paci-get-the-blanket-tell-mom-she's-crying person. He's amazing with all of them and doesn't seem to mind that he's the only boy. And wow, is he a boy! He is so into cars and trucks (fire trucks, police cars, semis, etc.) He also loves, and I mean loves, dirt! It's everywhere all the time. He has Evie's penchant for water so JC is the one who instigates the mud at all times! Evie of course is always up for mud so no upset there for her. I am forever threatening the end of playtime to get the faucets turned off!

He is also now potty training. Wish us luck! He is doing a great job. He loves to "practice" and really likes the "treats" he gets for being successful. We are moving to big boy underpants this coming week so hopefully he'll just continue being his wonderful successful self. I love him so much.


I also want everyone to know that JC is actually Yoda in disguise. Yes, Yoda from Star Wars. For example, now that JC is actually talking, his sentences are quite interesting.

"No paci's, me!"
"Baby, not me."
"Mom, take them crayons?"
"Diapers, no more me."

It's wonderful to hear him stringing together words and coming up with real meaning. It's fascinating to see him doing it too! Evie's language acquisition was so different. I love having several children. Each grows and learns so differently. What a challenge!

Next comes the ever interesting Lizzy! She finally conquered the challenge of balance vs. gravity and has begun walking. It took forever, but I finally caught her on video. Enjoy!


We are still working on the screaming issue. Whenever she wants something and doesn't get it or something is stolen or... okay so she screams whenever she's unhappy. It's diminishing slowly as she learns the signs for "please", "more", and nodding yes or no. Hopefully as she gets better at communicating and I get better at understanding the screaming can be fully replaced.

Lizzy also celebrated quite a few firsts this spring as evidenced by the pix below. First dentist appt. (not as easy as Joe's, but still relatively successful). Her first day out of the stroller in the park. (she loved it) And her first time out of the high chair and into the climbing stuff at the McD's! (faster than Joe, if that's possible) We're still working on the hair-thing. Chris calls her feral, which I hate, but it does fit. Her hair is constantly in her eyes making her look very wild indeed. He wants to cut it, but I'm not ready, so wild thing she is until that time. She is also one of the cutest little Fosburgs. It's the dimple and the all out giggle she's got going on, I'll be honest.



Finally our Fourth little Fosburg, Alexandra. Ally is so great. She's my go with the flow kid. She has started smiling in response to people and noises and I just discovered that she' s as ticklish as the rest of my little ones. It was quite a surprise. I was washing her in the bath and I took one of those little baby washcloths and rubbed under her arms. She shifted funny and then smiled real big. I did it again just to see if it was a ticklish spot (I know, I'm terrible) and guess what? She is! So cute.


She has been sleeping through the night for about three weeks now. She takes her last bottle about 11pm and then sleeps until 7am. I love it! She has been doing so well we officially moved her into her room with JC. It's been great sleeping for me since then! She also sleeps better when someone is around and Joe makes plenty of noise for her. Joe does a great job keeping her entertained and I often have to fish her out of all the blankets, toys, pacis, and one time, him! We've talked about how Ally likes to be by herself in her bed and now he just makes sure she has a blanket. It's very cute.


Well, those are the Four Little Fosburgs and their spring. Loves!